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Achieving a Work-Life-School Balance
by Dina Mishev
You’ve got hours of homework to do, work is a disaster and the
kids are complaining they haven’t seen you in days. Managing work
and family is hard enough—88 percent of respondents in a survey
conducted by Fast Company magazine said they find juggling their work
and personal lives difficult—but an ever-increasing percentage
of adults are adding school into the mix as well. Thankfully, unlike
work and your home life, school lasts for a designated amount of time:
10 months, two years—whatever it is, at least you can see the
light at the end of the tunnel.
While this light at the end of the tunnel is reassuring in the long
run, you still have to learn how to balance everything in the short
term. We’re not going to pretend it won’t be difficult—after
all, just because you’re in school doesn’t mean the number
of hours in a day will double—but it is do-able. The same Fast
Company survey found that 87 percent of respondents believed it was
possible to achieve balance in life if you made it a priority.
Everyone’s circumstances are different, but here are some wide-ranging
hints that should help across the board.
Arrive at work early. Most people don’t take
this advice, but that’s good news for you. Take advantage of the
relative quiet of the office—no co-workers coming to you with
problems, not too many email or phone messages to respond to yet—and
get a head start on (or even start and finish) some of the day’s
most pressing tasks. You’d be surprised at how much work you can
get done when you don’t face any disruptions.
Leave work on time. Working late can’t always
be helped, but try for an on-time departure at least three times a week.
Don’t take work home. Sometimes “homework”
is unavoidable, but make it a last resort. Not only does it signal to
your family that work is more important to them (even if that isn’t
the case), but also it is not productive. Imagine trying to concentrate
on sales figures or writing a memo with a spouse and kids milling about
and craving attention. If you have something that just has to get done,
better to stay at work and finish it up. It will end up taking less
time and will be a better product. And your family won’t feel
like they’re playing second-fiddle.
Minimize working weekends. Whether your weekend is
the traditional Saturday-Sunday or a Wednesday-Thursday, try to keep
it free from work. We know, it is easier to say than do, but if you
make a work-free weekend a priority, it can be done. Use prioritized
task lists to determine what really needs to be done when. Most things
can wait until Monday, if not Tuesday or Wednesday. If Gen. Colin Powell—an
overachieving, overcommitted professional if ever there was one—can
do it, you can, too. In his autobiography, My American Journey, Powell
writes about a speech he gave his soldiers in Germany: “The Army
is to be enjoyed, not endured. Have fun in your command. Don’t
always run at a breakneck pace. Take leave when you’ve earned
it. Spend time with your families. I don’t intend to work on weekends
unless it’s absolutely necessary. And I don’t expect you
to either. Anyone found logging Saturday or Sunday hours for himself
or his troops had better have a good reason.”
Schedule time with family and friends. You schedule
meetings with co-workers and managers, right? You have a class schedule.
Why not pen in some quality time with friends and family, too? And your
new work-free weekends can be a perfect time to do it. Research has
shown people are more likely to do things written in a calendar or on
a to-do list. It sounds silly, but go ahead and block out 30 minutes
on your calendar or to-do list to help the kids walk the dog or to cook
dinner with your spouse.
Start a study group. Students at traditional brick-and-mortar
universities do it and so can online students. Study groups not only
make homework more fun—one of my college study groups still has
annual reunions even eight years after graduation—but can also
help you gain a better grasp of material and save time. There’s
nothing wrong with divvying up research tasks or problem sets—so
long as it doesn’t result in mere copying when it comes time to
share the fruits of everyone’s labor. Strive for a group with
all members having a different area of expertise. That way, you don’t
only have study partners but also easily accessible tutors.
Block out time for homework. As with most things, homework
is done most easily when you can devote a significant chunk of time
to it. Sure, 10 minutes is better than no minutes, but you’re
not going to be able to get through a course on 10 minutes a day. Just
as you do at work and with your family (as recommended above), schedule
specific time to do schoolwork. If your spouse and kids know mom’s
(or dad’s) study time is the hour after dinner every night, you’ll
have an easier time minimizing interruptions and explaining why you’re
disappearing.
Include kids in homework. If your kids are old enough—third
or fourth grade should work—you can do homework together (killing
two birds, family time and homework, with one stone). Since kids are
in school themselves and can start to have a decent amount of homework
by this age, sharing your own school and homework experiences with them
can be a great way to bond. They’ll understand where you’re
coming from, and you’d be surprised at how much of a resource
they can be when you have a difficult problem set or when it comes time
for you to cram for a test. A friend’s fifth grader once stood
sentinel outside their home office door to ensure the three younger
kids wouldn’t disturb dad while he was studying for a final. The
next term, the same fifth grader made up accounting flash cards, copied
from a textbook, and used them to quiz her dad.
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